it's not me, it's you!
Tänker skriva på engelska detta, eftersom jag ibland har folk som läser min blogg som inte kan svenska.
Trust. To trust someone, can be really hard. Especially if they have hurt you once. To trust new people can also be difficult. But I really think that it is harder to trust a person you love, who have hurt you before, than to trust a new person that is a complete stranger to you. "Trust" can also connote "forgiveness". Sometimes people make mistakes, they tell someone else a secret that you told them with trust, they cheat on you, or something else.
Sometimes you forgive them, simply because you still want them in your life. And sometimes you let go, even if you love a person. But when trust is gone, the person is too...
To let go does not mean to stop caring,
it means I can't do it for someone else.
To let go is not to cut myself off,
it's the realization I can't control another.
To let go is not to enable,
but allow learning from natural consequences.
To let go is to admit powerlessness, which means
the outcome is not in my hands.
To let go is not to try to change or blame another,
it's to make the most of myself.
To let go is not to care for,
but to care about.
To let go is not to fix,
but to be supportive.
To let go is not to judge,
but to allow another to be a human being.
To let go is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes,
but to allow others to affect their destinies.
To let go is not to be protective,
it's to permit another to face reality.
To let go is not to deny,
but to accept.
To let go is not to nag, scold or argue,
but instead to search out my own shortcomings and correct them.
To let go is not to adjust everything to my desires,
but to take each day as it comes and cherish myself in it.
To let go is not to criticize or regulate anybody,
but to try to become what I dream I can be.
To let go is not to regret the past,
but to grow and live for the future.
To let go is to fear less and love more
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